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When the world seemingly goes belly up then whom can you trust ? "Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do." - Benjamin Spock Today is the day to unpack this " elephant in the room " within the human psyche and place it firmly into the middle of the room for our conscious review. It takes courage to face the elephant in the room and fully embrace it within its totality of reality. Often a reality which is been resisted by the ego whom is attempting to avoid painful situation and yet this resistance in fact can take up much of ones energies within thoughts and habits. It takes bravery to acknowledge its presence as the " elephant in the room " represents that which has not been truly fully felt, owned and acknowledged within the self and thus within humanity as a collective. It is the elephant in the room that is running our life's in fear rather than unconditional love and acceptance " that this too shall pass " . Distrust is not uncommon among us humans. So many are plagued with the lack of self trust which has lead to the obsessive seeking of this approval and self validation externally. Not so unlike love, the human psyche has placed many rules and conditions on what and whom is to be trusted and not trusted. This often gets established in childhood. These rules and conditions also gets placed upon the self internally of what parts or aspects and expressions of self can be trusted and distrusted. Human sexuality is a good example of this. These external representations of distrust and trust are always reflections of what we carry within us via our beliefs and attitudes, values and intentions. Facing the elephants within the human psyche and energy field is how each person can reclaim and transform what was once hidden in the shadows of the subconscious mind into the alchemical light of consciousness and then to create anew a new belief. Within the light of ones conscious awareness, one can consciously choose again a new thought, frequency and possibility through the values of self compassion, self empowerment and self love. That is the power within you " You are powerful beyond measure " Yeshusa ( Jesus ) T R U S T ~ What does it take when you don't ? The first step to recovery is admitting the truth of what is arising and finding a medium to give that voice and expression into the light of your own awareness so that it becomes more conscious. You may also choose to share and allow yourself to be witnessed by another like a trusted friend, a therapist or other. I highly recommend writing the thoughts down in your journal to begin the process. However the act of speaking out loud to another person whom you feel you can trust to hold your highest intentions of personal empowerment and healing can reveal what deep seated beliefs are running the show of your life. In truth all that is required is to notice and become aware at what triggers you and get curious as to what is really going on and why you reacted so strongly. Behind every deeply emotional trigger is a belief and storyline that got created within a past moment of trauma and then got buried in the subconscious mind. This is something that meditation, mindfulness practices, journalling and yoga can support with. Flushing out the unexpressed voice of I DON'T / I CAN'T TRUST by writing these thoughts down : Here in written form I am exposing some of my own hidden beliefs that were born of distrust within myself and others mostly when I was a child and influenced from other incarnations of my soul memories.
Through my inner child's voice ' I don't trust you ( the adults ) to stay open and loving towards me when I speak from my heart and be my true self so I cannot trust myself and my voice or expression, I must learn how to be different and more like others in order to fit in and get my needs met for acceptance, connection, safety and love '. ( and thus the people pleaser was born and the shame and anxieties connected to being my authentic expression. This is a perfect example of how we decide to leave listening to our hearts and gut feelings as children and start orientating to our life's from our heads and mental minds. For some this may not happen until entering school in order to fit into the requirements of that environment and not get shamed ) These ' I don't and Can't Trust myself " are an example of the voices within the inner psyche. This is a perfect example of journalling these thoughts and beliefs out. Now that my adult self can really look at these. I am more empowered to now choose in this new moment to accept that I ( my inner child self ) did indeed come to these conclusions in my childhood and that I can acknowledge where they have still been influencing my adulthood energies, thoughts and frequencies until I make deeper changes. With this awareness and acceptance I can now more consciously and compassionately create a new thought and belief from a new level of conscious awareness, like for example " I AM TRUST " . " I AM are two of the most powerful words, for what ever you place after them with becomes your experience ". My inner child self definitely learnt that she could not trust herself as often she / I felt shut down when she spoke up and even punished and shamed. As a sensitive child I was very aware of other peoples energies and when I spoke from my heart and what seemed obvious to my intuitive awareness in the moment, I often felt the adults around me pulled back their energy and closed their hearts more rather than opening up towards my expression. I am not sure what I said exactly in those moments, I just know that it was not welcomed and most lightly I said something that made them feel uncomfortable as I spoke a truth that was been unspoken about. On a very energetic and emotional level, I often felt this experience as a child as a coldness and shutting off instead of a warmth and kindness towards me. Over time I decided that I could not trust my heart and I had to figure out how to be more like other people to function better in my world to receive my needs to be met for connection and love however conditional. What did your inner child decide when they experienced uncomfortable situations growing up that are still influencing your adult life today ? I learnt to be a people pleaser and discount my own feelings and needs in order to survive these environmental situations as best as I could. I did all I could to make others feel better so that I could then feel better by feeling more accepted and valued and thus safe and connected with others within my environment. Can you relate to this in your own childhood ? To reclaim a deeper and healthier connection to ones true authentic self is the key to empowering your health and living the life style you truly desire. Trust requires the understanding that ' I never did anything wrong ' , life is experience and everyone has a story. " My heart forgives and releases, inner peace is my goal ". *** For support with Transformative Inner Child Healing and releasing unhelpful beliefs and upgrading to your new preferred beliefs Book a QHHT with Mary Jo. Trusting yourself is the key to your discernment. |
AuthorMy name is Mary Jo and I am passionate about a self-empowered humanity through Wellness, Inner Harmony, Joyous Self Responsibility and Authentic Creative Expression. Archives
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